Kids are funny and expectation is even funnier. My eldest, Avery is getting ready to turn
nine years old, and like most eight year olds her interests are as varied as
her skill level in said interests. As a
parent, we tend to overestimate our children’s abilities. I see it in soccer every year, “why isn’t
Billy getting more playing time? He’s the best player out there!” My internal dialogue usually goes something
like this “Because Billy (chose option) tackles other kids…asked to come out…is
hiding in the net…has to potty…is thirsty, hungry, tired”. But I’m the same. To me, all of my kids are the smartest,
funniest, prettiest and most athletically gifted. It’s probably not true but good luck
convincing me of that.
That brings me to this week.
I’ve always known that Avery was a very good runner. She has always had a unique ability to run
for days. I've been hesitant to consider her to be as fast as she actually is. She's fast, but coming from her parent's stock, how fast could she actually be? Her soccer coaches recognize
it. She has always earned extra playing
time because she always appears fresh regardless of how long she has played in
a game. Her P.E. coach has acknowledged on
a number of occasions that perhaps Avery belongs on a track team of some sort
citing her form and her endurance.
Last weekend she ran in a 5K and did very well…and I mean
VERY well. She finished third out of the
youth group. This means she was third
out of 112 kids aged 15 and under. The
race director pulled me aside and questioned whether or not she had actually
run the race and despite my verification, the director didn’t believe me. He was ready to award her medal to someone else and I couldn't believe it. It wasn’t until another woman who ran with
Avery confirmed that Avery had blown by her at the second mile marker that she was allowed to receive her medal.
Yesterday, the track coach from what will be Avery’s middle
school reached out to my wife asking if she would be continuing to
compete. Middle school is three years
away. It seemed like a crazy
conversation to be having. Frankly, all
of this seemed crazy. The medal, the sub
24 minute time, the call from the middle school track coach. It would have all seemed even crazier if it
weren’t April Fools Day, but alas, here we are. Happy April Fools Day!
I hate this one - I was totally jazzed that she runs like the Flash!
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